Changes

Sorry I’ve been absent this week. We had a power outage, an air conditioning issue and a breakup. Needless to say it was a rough week.

Change is inevitable. We always hope that those we love adapt with us, but it isn’t always the case.

Relationships are not perfect and when you have kids things are very different. Dating is different. What’s important is different. What you do with your time is different.

I learned a lot about myself in the last year. I had a lot of fun in the last year. I learned some things I never knew I wanted in a relationship and I also learned some things that are no longer acceptable for me. He was a truly lovely man and I wish him happiness.

So I find myself single again and that’s ok. I know I need some time for my heart to heal and that’s ok. I need to do a few things before I ever think about dating again and that’s ok too. In true Amanda fashion, I made a list. A list of things that I have to do before I even consider getting back out there. Don’t worry, I’ll take you along.